10th Chinaversary
Today is my Chinaversary! On September 5, 2006, I set foot in China for the first time in my life. Fast forward 10 years and I’ve been here over 8 of those years! If someone had told me back then, I don’t think I would have believed it! After all, I only intended to stay for one semester.
What have I accomplished during this time? Let me recollect…
- I became fluent in Mandarin. I will never have a flawless accent but I’m comfortable speaking on the phone, watching tv and reading books. Well, more or less. There are always people with difficult accents or writers who use too many unusual words.
- I survived (and even enjoyed!) living in this foreign country where people do weird things like wearing pajamas on the street or walking backwards. I may or may not have gone to the store downstairs in my pajamas.
- I met people from all over the world, especially when I was a student. On a normal week I could go shopping with Koreans, have pizza for dinner with Angolans and then go to a latin party with Bolivians. Now I’m less cosmopolitan and I usually hang out with Chinese, although I also have friends from other nationalities.
- I overcame my shyness. When I speak Chinese my “clown” side comes to the surface. I have no problem singing and dancing in front of people and I even volunteer to do it.
- I met my half orange, as we say in Spanish. Did I mention that we will have our weddings next year?
- I travelled to many places within China and several other countries around. But I still have many more places to go!
- I found a job I love and I’m doing what I always wanted to. And from home!
- I fulfilled one of my childhood dreams: having a Golden Retriever! (Ok, I could have done this anywhere, but it wouldn’t have been Nico!).
In 2006, when I first came to China, I had an online journal in a website called Fotolog. This is the first picture I published from Beijing:
On that first entry I mentioned that people stared at us on the street (I came with a Spanish friend) and that CDs were very cheap. During those first days I also found out that instant noodles are not cooked in the microwave oven (you just pour boiling water inside) and that drinking in bars is not cheap. On other entries I mentioned the school in front of the dorm, where they would exercise with very loud music at 7 am every day, and I also noticed that most tv shows were either historical dramas or singing contests. It’s still like this 10 years later!
I’m very glad I wrote that online journal and that it’s still available, so I can review my first impressions of China ten years ago. Overall these ten years have been positive and China has treated me well!
Very impressive! Congratulations!
Thanks! But it should be more impressive. I should have learned Suzhou dialect too by now!!
Congratulations on 10 years since first coming to China! That is certainly quite a lot of achievements. Maybe the speaking Chinese one was the hardest, and now it comes second nature to you :D That is certainly a big group of people doing exercise so early together in the morning. And so in sync too! They must looks forward to it every day :D
Yes, speaking Chinese was probably the hardest! And it’s something that never really ends… you never stop learning a language!
I’m not sure the kids are very eager to do exercise in the mornings haha. But they don’t have a choice!
Viva!! Para mí también fue una experiencia muy satisfactoria.
Congrats Martha.
Wedding next year! Have you started the ball rolling?
How long did it take you to be fluent in Mandarin? Did you have one to one lessons initially?
I didn’t do much yet re the weddings preparations! We still have to fix the date, but at least I found a place I like in Suzhou to do the banquet. For the Spain one I will go visit some places at the end of the month.
Mmm it depends on what you consider fluent, but I’d say at least 2 years studying full time in China. I started when I was in Spain, in college, and I never had one on one lessons, always with other students in a class. I did have some language exchange with Chinese students when I was in Beijing.
Congratulations on your Chinaversery and having so many experiences and so much growth!!! (I’m dreading my 10 year anniversary in a couple of years haha)
Awesome to save your old passport, I do that as well. Or do you still have the same one?
I’ve had 3 passports since I’m in China!! And I keep them all. The Spanish passport has a validity of 5 years when you are below 30, and 10 years when you are over 30. My next one will finally have 10 years!
Marta me encantó este post!! que lindo. 10 años wow, qué rápido se te debe haber pasado, no? que bueno que hayas logrado un excelente nivel de chino, yo aún sigo en el proceso.
Y dios mio! quedé en shock con lo de la bodaaaa!! que lindas noticias, felicidades! <3
Sí que se ha pasado rápido… dentro de poco tendré 80 años jajaja. ¡¡Que paren el mundo!! Mi nivel de chino no es excelente, creo que nunca podré llegar a eso, jajaja.
Los años se pasan mega rápido, yo también quiero que se detenga un rato!! ahahha
Heck yeah! Ten years and a lot of accomplishments. Congratulations. Weird how fast it all goes by, isn’t it? This would also my 10th year Chinaversary if I were to start counting from when I first arrived in the country as a tourist (July 2006!). But I don’t really start counting my true China experiences until I came back in 2008 and started bringing university students to the countryside for a month at a time as part of my job – so I’m really on year 8 of China entering my life. I’ll get to my ten years soon enough.
What do you give someone for their tenth Chinaversary? Is it something Tin, like you were married? Or maybe some fake Jade? Street food? Hongbao? Or possibly a shirt with some terrible Engrish? I don’t know, but I think you should make C. buy you something because why not.
Hahaha nah, I don’t need anything, and we are going to spend a lot of money this week because Nico needs to have surgery :_(
Hey congratulations, especially on becoming fluent in Mandarin! (I shall never reach it as I am soooooo lazy)
Btw is there an adress for the fotolog? xD
Back in 2006..mh I started my last year of high school and in 2007 I moved to Finland, probably not as exciting as going to China as Finland has been always basically my second home already before.
Is Fu Yuenhui still a big thing after the Olympic Games in China? As I have too limited time I can’t really roam the internet the past weeks anymore so I lost track of everything. However I do hope that next time we go to China (and revisit several of the cities on our own which we had been alreadyin the crazy city tour) to check out Fu’s swimming team, it is always interesting for me to see practice in other countries especially in China. Thankfully due to my creepy swimming past I often have easy access/ find the right contacts to make such visits possible :)
That fotolog is in Spanish… and pretty embarrassing. Not sure you really want to see it xD
Yesterday I read some news about how the olympians have become very famous in China even though the medal count was not so good. Several of them will be doing tv shows. Fu Yuanhui is going to do a show with Bear Grylls haha!
I don’t know where they train though. Beijing? Shanghai? I’m sure you can find a guanxi and visit them!
All I know is that she is in the Zhejiang Swimming team. However that does not mean that she actually practices there!
Oh well, soon my parents are back from their 4 month holiday and can help us out with Nathan again = me having more time to go crazy online :)
4 month holiday?? I want to be retired right now xD
I’m with you! Well my parents worked enough in their life I would say, mom started with 6 helping at the farm and with 15 real work until she was 68 and dad starting also with 16 and quit with 70… :p
However they are 4 months in their cottage so it is more like a work camp…there is always stuff to do!
I think you having wedding next year is a more exciting and congratulations worthy news. I’m not sure if you mentioned it before earlier, but I think this is the first time I read it.
Also, pajamas to the store downstairs? I wear my pajamas to the malls even over here! :D
Haha nah, I didn’t mention it before. I’m trying to not make a fuss about it. It will be something simple.
To the mall?? Nooo! How can you?? hahaha
That was very sneaky, hiding your engagement in the middle of a post! I skipped over the “orange” part (as I often skip over the “orange as a dessert” part of dinner with Andy’s family) and had to go back and find it when I saw all the comments!
Can’t wait to hear all about both weddings. :)
Hahaha you don’t like oranges? :P In Spain we usually also have fruit for dessert, sweets are more an afternoon treat (between lunch and dinner).
I still didn’t start organizing much. I will try to do something simple. Weddings are so complicated nowadays… and I need to arrange two!!
Absolutely. If you can keep it simple, that would be the way to go. As long as that’s what YOU want and not your parents or future MIL.
My parents and his parents haven’t even said a word so I guess I will have to decide everything myself haha. My mum only told me she needs to invite between 2 and 4 people. MIL still didn’t give her guests list, but I guess it will just be a few of her friends.
Congrats! (Tried Spanish pads this week!)
Congratulations on your “Chinaversary”! You had a lot of good experiences and you seem to still be enjoying it so good for you. Congrats on your nuptials next year too.
Hahahah walking backwards :’D that sounds really funny xD or exercising in public transportations :’D I always had to swallow down my laughing when I saw that :’D
In public transportation? Like when people do push ups using the holding bars in the subway? xD
Hahahaha I haven’t seen that but I saw some men stretching their arms on the bus and hitting their shoulders :’D
Congrats! 10 years when you only planned to go for a semester :-) it’s interesting how life turns out. I think it’s great you managed to get your dream job there, learn Chinese and (soon!) get married.
Wow! What an eventful decade for you. Learning Chinese is a huge achievement.
It’s exciting to hear about your upcoming wedding. Somehow I ended up planning three weddings, mine and those of two of my daughters. My oldest daughter got married two weeks after her graduation. She wanted to have the wedding at Princeton and thought she could plan the whole thing while she was taking finals and writing her Senior paper. I wanted it back in Seattle, so I planned it. Weddings can be fun if you don’t make yourself nervous and spend too much money.
You’ve really made the most of your ten years. Congratulations!
Is it actually possible to not spend too much money? Weddings are so expensive, haha.
I guess “too much” is relative. Flowers and food are huge expenses if you aren’t careful. The one thing I didn’t want to scrimp on for both daughters’ weddings was a band. It added lots of fun. One daughter married a Jewish guy, so we had a klezmer band. The other groom’s family is from Puerto Rico, so we hired a band that did salsa.
Oh, I already found online a great swing band in my hometown! But not sure if I will have a band in the Chinese wedding, as weddings here tend to be very fast (arrive, eat, leave) and apart from that, the place where I want to have it is pretty small… let’s see!
Food is so expensive, yes. In Spain, you can expect to pay around 100 euros per guest only for food and drinks. I still didn’t look at the flowers. My poor bank account must be trembling…
Congratulations Marta! That’s quite an achievement… you’ve been in China for a DECADE! I can relate with you on a lot of those achievements, especially the shyness one. In China no one seems shy about anything (you can even dance in the street!), I was completely shameless in China, haha.
And congrats on your wedding!!! Awww!!! I love that phrase… other half of your orange, haha. Congrats to you both!
This year my boyfriend and I also got engaged (happened 2 months ago!). I also have a wedding to plan ho ho ho. What season were you thinking? Are you doing one in Spain and China?
Well, 1.5 out of these 10 years I was back in Spain! So not a decade yet!
Yaaaay! Congrats to you too! Will you also get married next year? Yes, I will do two weddings. Dates are not fixed yet as I still have to check the availability of the places I want, but I was thinking May/June in Suzhou and end of September in Spain. Apart from that I didn’t plan anything else hahaha. No idea about the dress, the colour theme or anything really xD
I’m thinking of September 2017 too! Just one wedding for us, because weddings in the USA are super expensive. My aunt told me to do one near my boyfriend’s family for the red envelope appeal, haha. I’m thinking of doing mine in my hometown of salt lake city. Can’t wait to exchange photos with you! :D
We can exchange preparation details too hahaha. I’ve never had interest in weddings so I have no idea about anything basically…
This is such a wonderful achievement; so much you have done, so much travel (clearly) and fabulous that you have become fluent in Chinese – it’s about seven years I have been studying part time to learn – and believe me I am not any where near fluent – living in Beijing for three years did help but since returning to Australia I only speak Chinese to my teacher and to the people in the local dumpling restaurant…shame!! Oh and of course congratulations on your upcoming nuptials…how exciting!!
To be honest I think the only reason I became fluent is because I spent 3 years studying full time in China. I think it is very hard to learn Chinese and work at the same time and I’m very impressed with anyone who manages to open a book after 8 hours in the office!
Congratulations on you Chinaversary! And felicidades on your engagement! You kept that one quiet :)
Do you still feel like you’re living in some sort of dream bubble. It’s real life, but it’s not as it wasn’t what you grew up with? I know I do!
Yes, hahaha, I think we talked about this real life bubble before xD I wonder if it will stop happening at some point…
We have! I just wanted to know now you’re nearly a married lady if you feel any different? Stupid question either way. Like you say I don’t think it’ll ever stop feeling that way!
Well done. I always look forward to your posts. So please keep going.
The view from my first room in China resemble the view that Melissa Gilbert had of her dorm in the movie “Forbidden Nights”. Great movie. I hope that you have a chance to watch it.
I didn’t know this movie, I found the beginning part in Youtube. Looks very interesting, haha. And even the cleaning ayi speaks English!
Congrats on 10 years!!!! If I look back at the 1st time I came to India… my 26 year Indiaversary slipped past months ago without my even realizing! Eek!
I guess after such a long time you just can’t keep counting all the years! :D
Feliz chinaversario, Marta!! Nena, que yo iré a las DOS bodas, que lo sepas!
Muy bien! La de Suzhou ya tenemos mirado el sitio, será el 13 de mayo lo más seguro. La semana que viene ya reservamos.
I hadn’t read this post… Congratulations on your 10th Chinaversary! And also on your wedding, that’s great news!! :)
Thanks! Not sure the wedding is great news, I am getting stressed over the preparations xD
I’m only just now celebrating my Fourth Chinaversary so congratulations! :)
Congrats to you too! Here’s to many more years :)
10 years! Wow….I just passed my 5 year mark. I, too, was supposed to stay only a short time (one year), and now my world is completely different. Congrats on the 10 years, and your upcoming wedding.
Thanks! Happy belated Chinaversary to you too then :D
I join in congratulating you on your Chinaversary Marta. Our family has been here 11 years and like you, when I look back to when we first arrived, I can hardly believe we’re still here!
Thanks, Charity! Wow, 11 years!!
Amazing how stepping outside of your comfort zone makes you grow…inspirational read!
Thanks! I did learn a lot… although it was more a flight than a step outside my comfort zone :D
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