So this is the new year
Every time a new year starts, I remember Death Cab for Cutie’s song: So this is the new year, and I don’t feel any different.
I also remember a strip from Calvin & Hobbes. I couldn’t find it now, but the dialogue goes like this:
Calvin: I’m getting disillusioned with these new years. They don’t seem very new at all! Each new year is just like the old year! Here another year has gone by and everything’s still the same! There’s still pollution and war and stupidity and greed! Things haven’t changed! I say what kind of future IS this?! I thought things were supposed to improve! I thought the future was supposed to be better!
Hobbes: The problem with the future is that it keeps turning into the present.
(Calvin & Hobbes is my favourite comic book. If you have never read it you can check it out here).
The turn of a year is something pre-established. There is not really a change, everything is the same, except that you have to get a new calendar. That is, if you are one of those old fashioned people who enjoy having a paper calendar. Like me!
For Chinese people, the new year does change something. They count their age based on the number of the year, so everybody gets one year older when a new year starts. For Chinese people, now I am 32!! I hate this. I just turned 31 four months ago!!
The first days of 2016 have been quiet for me. We spent our three days of holidays cooking, eating and watching movies. Then I started working from home. Well, to be honest, I started working from home last week, but let’s consider that just a warm-up!
This is my new office (located in our guest room):
I am supposed to have one hour for lunch break. Sometimes I cook at home. When I am lazy I go outside to eat. I found a canteen-style place just outside our compound. You get a tray and choose the dishes you want. It reminds me of the canteen at my old job in Suzhou. It is cheap and convenient, but I want to eat at home more often. Small restaurants are always too generous with salt and MSG.
I am worried that being home all day is going to hinder my inspiration for blog posts. Many posts I wrote were inspired by things I saw on the street, or by conversations I had with people. But now my human contact is limited to QQ and Skype, and my outside walks are always around the compound.
Let’s see what surprises 2016 brings us! (I just noticed it is a Summer Olympics year. Again!!).
That is a very nice home office set up. I’m guessing the office gave you those computers to set up and use. Two screens :D You can take a walk on your lunch break each day, and that way you can probably see interesting things and blog about what you see outside :)
Yeah, I have to take walks 3 times a day, to take Nico to the toilet :D But not many interesting things around my compound, haha. Let’s see what I can come up with!
I love Calvin and Hobbs, but I hadn’t heard (I don’t think) of the New Year’s one – excellent! As far as working from home, maybe you can get inspired by taking Nico for daily or routine walks to break up work and stretch your legs a bit. Or you can try to eat someplace new once a week? I’m sure you’ll figure it out. Yea, for working from home. Happy New Year and best wishes from Cambodia..xxoo
Yeah, I will try all the small restaurants around here, hehe. Not many to choose from, though. But I have several big malls within 20 minutes walking distance :)
I read almost all copies of Calvin & Hobbes that I could lay my hands. I think he swore many statements along that line. They both are smart kid & pet which taught me many realistic issues.
Your office is so neat and tidy. I am no where close to this tidiness! LOL
You should get your fortune sticks read by the old folks on every new year. I am sure yours would be auspicious with windfalls.
My office is tidy only because I just set it, haha. Let’s see how it looks like in a month…
I love Calvin and Hobbes. I have read everything several times. They have a great life philosophy :)
I have never had my fortune told. I don’t think I could understand everything the fortune teller said in Chinese, haha. I guess they tend to speak in obscure terms.
The office looks already neat :)
Don’t worry about inspiration. I have been home bound for over nine months now but still I manage somehow
Woah, nine months? That sounds very serious! I hope you can recover soon!
Thank you. I am myself surprised that it is that long already. Will do my best to be fine hopefully soon :)
I like paper calendars too, I’m old-fashioned too, haha. Working from home sounds pretty good though I would miss interacting with coworkers.
There is nothing like having a paper calendar where you can mark the days you need to. And also paper notebooks to take quick notes :)
Yeah, I miss having coworkers :/ Now I can only chat with them through QQ… and it’s not the same.
Calvin and Hobbes were the greatest. They are timeless and work on multiple levels.
The whole letdown after New Year’s prepared me for marriage, though. I didn’t feel one bit different after I got married than I did before I got married. Aside from a somewhat stronger desire to scream at my new husbands parents, that is.
Hahaha, that is a good way of looking at it. I don’t think I will feel any different when I am married, after all, we have been living together for a long time. But for sure I will be more pressured to have a baby when I am married.
YEAH YOU WILL!
THIS! So this. I’m a man and I get peppered with this at every gathering involving the in-laws. But hey, maybe you’ll get a platform for “good luck” (fantastic blog, Autumn – Marta’s got the connect for the quality blogs out there).
Well, it’s nice to know that a man is also taking some heat regarding reproduction. :)
In my case my boyfriend is taking all the pressure up until now! His parents have never said anything to me directly. The grandma does but she only speaks Suzhou dialect and I don’t understand her xD
Death Cab for Cutie and Calvin & Hobbes… what better way to express ennui. Still, 新年快樂 to you and wish for the best 2016 even if it is just what it is! :)
Haha, just what it is is good enough! ;)
I had never heard the word ennui. Thanks for teaching it!
Maybe you could take evening walks out of your compound, further away. For me (even though I’m not working from home), I make it a point to drive somewhere far away, and then take walks around new areas.
Uhm, maybe I will try doing this… when it is not winter! :P
Not…jealous…at…all…
Don’t let those four walls get you down. Think of them as inspiration for magical weekend adventures outside of your apartment.
And just remember – for Nico, this New Year is the greatest year ever since you’ll always be home now.
Haha, I guess Nico is happy but she spends all day sleeping so not sure how big of a difference it makes!
My magical weekends are usually spent on the sofa… oh god, that sofa is so dangerous!!
Canteen style food can go down a treat. It brings back sweet memories; the tuck shop in the first couple of years in my primary school (delicious home cooked food, local cakes and desserts) and my holiday in Penang, a island famed for its food (some are unique to the island. I had black stingray curry for the first time, it was so good.
In China canteen food tends to be fast and convenient, but not specially tasty! I am not a picky eater so I’m fine.
Stingray? wow!
Maybe you could make you own lunch, take it out to eat in a local park and people watch! Happy New Year!
Maybe when it is warmer and the air is clean :D
I forgot China’s air’s not so good!
I love how Nico is in your photo. It’s good to see what he sees when he is relaxing in his bed. I think this is a nice post Marta so if your others are like this it will be interesting I am sure.
She’s a lazy ass, sleeping all day!
Ha ha. My two are the same. Very cute but very lazy.
That office looks too homely to do any work in :)
Ha! I work super hard :P But I also have time to cook and do some things around the apartment.
Your new office looks so neat and orderly. My home office tends to get messy. One thing I like about working at home is that I can play music while I work. Another benefit: I don’t have to waste time commuting. But you’re right: Spending too much time at home makes it hard to come up with ideas for blog posts.
Hehe, I could also listen to music in the office, with the headphones. We even had a DJ Day every Thursday! (We still do it online!).
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